If you're not consistently choosing the optimistic viewpoint, your mind will automatically default to the fear-based pessimistic view of what is to come. This isn't wrong or bad, it's just your mind's way of being prepared for "the worst." What we're suggesting here is that you expect and look forward to the best, and be prepared to learn and grow stronger from whatever happens.
This is the brilliant formula for life that really works, if you use it daily and on an ongoing basis. That's why you need the loyalty...so that you'll keep coming back to that eager, happy, loving and optimistic view of your favorite canine companion.