Dr. DeFoore's Goodfinding Newsletter

Published: Sun, 02/01/15

Goodfinding® Newsletter
Goodfinding.com     William G. DeFoore, Ph.D.     February, 2015     Vol 9 Issue 2

Are You Driving Or Driven?

When you’re driving, you’re looking straight ahead to where you’re going. When you’re driven, you are actually being motivated by something from behind you…something you’re probably not fully aware of...like fear.

Develop a positive, exhilarating, uplifting picture of who and how you want to be, and exactly what you want to be doing. Travel confidently into that bright future as if you knew for certain you would arrive at your destination.

Ask yourself regularly why you're doing what you're doing, and get crystal clear in your mind about your optimistic determination to enjoy the ride into the outcomes you choose. You're in the driver's seat!
Far too many of us are "driving blind," meaning, we aren't really clear about where we're going...and therefore might not be watching where we're going. As you go through the exercise of regularly revisiting the question, "Why am I doing what I do?" carefully tweak your answer until it is filled with enthusiasm, intelligent optimism, and joyful anticipation of successful outcomes.

You're actually in the driver's seat, whether you realize it or not. You're just a lot more likely to like where you end up if you have a clear picture and a focused determination about your joyfully anticipated destination.

Quotes From Great Goodfinders

"Optimism is the faith that leads to achievement. Nothing can be done without hope and confidence."
--Hellen Keller

"With vision there is no room to be frightened, no reason for intimidation. It's time to march forward! Let's be confident and positive!"
--Charles R. Swindoll

"Vision without a task is only a dream. A task without a vision is but drudgery. But vision with a task is a dream fulfilled."
--Donald Zimmerman

"Happiness is a deep sense of flourishing, not a mere pleasurable feeling or fleeting emotion but an optimal state of being."
--Happify.com

William G. DeFoore, Ph.D
Halcyon Life Enterprises, LLP